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Shirley Southard

LCMHC North Carolina 20 years of experience

Compassionate counselor for major life changes

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Shirley Southard
  • Warm listening style
  • Skill-building focus
  • Practical steps

About Shirley

Shirley Southard is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) with 20 years of experience. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, grief, trauma, parenting strains, ADHD, relationship and family concerns, and coping with life changes. Shirley aims to create a warm, nonjudgmental space where people can talk and be heard.

She draws on practical methods to help clients make real changes. Sessions focus on clear steps people can try between meetings. Shirley uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. She also uses Motivational Interviewing to support readiness for change and Client-Centered Therapy to keep the conversation respectful and client-led.

Her background includes work across mental health, developmental disability, and substance use settings. Shirley has supported clients through divorce, single parenting, addiction recovery, women's issues, and mood concerns. She has also worked with active military members and assisted medication management in clinical settings.

In sessions she listens without judgment and helps people map out goals. Practical education and skills training are part of her approach. Over time she helps people build routines and coping strategies that fit everyday life.

Shirley practices in North Carolina and communicates in English. Her LCMHC credential stands for Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and reflects her clinical role in counseling work.

How Shirley Uses Practical Therapies Online

Shirley commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Client-Centered Therapy in her work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and helps people test small behavior changes that can reduce anxiety, depression, panic, or problem drinking. Client-Centered Therapy keeps the client's priorities at the center and emphasizes listening, acceptance, and the client's own goals.

Choosing the best approach is part of the process. Shirley will work together with the client to decide which methods fit the person's needs, goals, and preferences. That collaborative conversation can include trying different strategies until something clicks.

Confirm the available session formats before booking because the biography does not list specific options. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example, sessions can remove travel time, allow shorter check-ins around work breaks, or reduce the need to be on camera depending on the format offered. Licensed professionals can use online sessions to teach coping skills, practice new communication habits, and set step-by-step goals that translate into daily routines.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsAnger managementDepressionADHD

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityCommunication problemsControl issuesDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

North Carolina

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns can Shirley help with?

She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, anger, grief, trauma and abuse, parenting strains, ADHD, relationship and family concerns, and coping with life changes.

What is her general therapy style?

She keeps sessions warm and nonjudgmental and centers the conversation on the client's needs. Sessions emphasize listening, practical skills, and small steps toward change.

What experience does she bring?

Shirley has about 20 years working in human services, including mental health, developmental disability, and substance use settings and work with active military members.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds a Master's degree in Counseling and is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) based in North Carolina.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify the exact formats offered.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin a session with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to therapist availability.

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